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		<title>Comment on Marital Confinement by Aaron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 13:38:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks, love!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Marital Confinement by Sharon</title>
		<link>http://www.aaronmccarter.com/family-stuff/marital-confinement#comment-324</link>
		<dc:creator>Sharon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 13:16:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Am I a reader?  Seriously...  I appreciate all of your kind words.  I tell everyone that if their husbands had a microphone every now and again or maybe a blog, it would enhance their marriage.  Public flattery gets you everywhere!  Well, guys . . . no excuses - you&#039;ve got Facebook, right?

For real though, I completely agree.  I prayed and prayed for a partner in ministry.  Confinement is just silly, really.  There is so much more we can do together that we could ever do a part.  I&#039;m not discounting Paul when we advocates for staying single.  I definitely see what he means.  But some people are meant to serve together - like us.  Thank you, Jesus, for my amazing husband and partner!

I love you, Aaron McCarter.  Like your blog, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Am I a reader?  Seriously&#8230;  I appreciate all of your kind words.  I tell everyone that if their husbands had a microphone every now and again or maybe a blog, it would enhance their marriage.  Public flattery gets you everywhere!  Well, guys . . . no excuses &#8211; you&#8217;ve got Facebook, right?</p>
<p>For real though, I completely agree.  I prayed and prayed for a partner in ministry.  Confinement is just silly, really.  There is so much more we can do together that we could ever do a part.  I&#8217;m not discounting Paul when we advocates for staying single.  I definitely see what he means.  But some people are meant to serve together &#8211; like us.  Thank you, Jesus, for my amazing husband and partner!</p>
<p>I love you, Aaron McCarter.  Like your blog, too.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Confused Protestant&#8217;s Guide to Lent. Plus 10 ideas for how to observe it. by Aaron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 23:24:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sarah, I agree with you. For some reason, Jesus&#039; commandment to be private about our fasting (Matthew 6:16) gets overlooked with Lent an awful lot. Perhaps because it&#039;s typically done in community?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah, I agree with you. For some reason, Jesus&#8217; commandment to be private about our fasting (Matthew 6:16) gets overlooked with Lent an awful lot. Perhaps because it&#8217;s typically done in community?</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Confused Protestant&#8217;s Guide to Lent. Plus 10 ideas for how to observe it. by Sarah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 22:37:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Having grown up in a town that was 80% Catholic, I still have a hard time with the current Protestant drive to observe Lent. I do actually think it&#039;s an awesome idea; however, I get stuck because Lent always seemed like such a silly thing where I grew up. Everyone was always giving up candy and chocolate and soda and being so flippant and yet simultaneously pious about it. Here&#039;s the bottom line for me: I love the idea of giving something up to spend more time with God, but I don&#039;t love the idea of people advertising what they are giving up as a mark of holiness. Like you said, you have to keep the legalism at bay. (But secretly, I longed to be Catholic and take a confirmation name like the majority of my friends. And give up chocolate just so I could utter those delicious words, &quot;I gave it up for Lent.&quot;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having grown up in a town that was 80% Catholic, I still have a hard time with the current Protestant drive to observe Lent. I do actually think it&#8217;s an awesome idea; however, I get stuck because Lent always seemed like such a silly thing where I grew up. Everyone was always giving up candy and chocolate and soda and being so flippant and yet simultaneously pious about it. Here&#8217;s the bottom line for me: I love the idea of giving something up to spend more time with God, but I don&#8217;t love the idea of people advertising what they are giving up as a mark of holiness. Like you said, you have to keep the legalism at bay. (But secretly, I longed to be Catholic and take a confirmation name like the majority of my friends. And give up chocolate just so I could utter those delicious words, &#8220;I gave it up for Lent.&#8221;)</p>
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		<title>Comment on Marital Confinement by Aaron</title>
		<link>http://www.aaronmccarter.com/family-stuff/marital-confinement#comment-316</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 19:24:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks, Jessie! that&#039;s a legit suggestion! The Consecration of Marriage...it&#039;s got a nice ring to it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks, Jessie! that&#8217;s a legit suggestion! The Consecration of Marriage&#8230;it&#8217;s got a nice ring to it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Marital Confinement by Aaron</title>
		<link>http://www.aaronmccarter.com/family-stuff/marital-confinement#comment-315</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 19:22:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;the boundaries have given me space&quot; ...i think that&#039;s so true! Good thoughts, Katie!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;the boundaries have given me space&#8221; &#8230;i think that&#8217;s so true! Good thoughts, Katie!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Marital Confinement by Jessie Conley</title>
		<link>http://www.aaronmccarter.com/family-stuff/marital-confinement#comment-314</link>
		<dc:creator>Jessie Conley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 18:34:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree. I can&#039;t really think of a replacement word for &quot;confines,&quot; but there needs to be. Perhaps &quot;consecration?&quot; Some of the good definitions I found for consecration/consecrated include: 

&quot;to give entirely to a specific person, activity, or cause&quot;
&quot;to dedicate oneself to another by a vow&quot;
&quot;to make inviolable&quot;
&quot;to devote to a purpose with or as if with deep solemnity or dedication&quot; 

I feel like these definitions better define what marriage should be. Not confinement and feeling &quot;imprisoned,&quot; but rather a dedicated willingness to be devoted to another person, and to make a vow to be devoted to them forever. With the word &quot;confinement,&quot; I feel like the emphasis is on making one feel as if they do not have a choice in the matter; as if it is their punishment or imprisonment without escape. &quot;Consecration,&quot; on the other hand, emphasizes the fact that one does indeed have a choice in the matter at hand; that one chooses to be diligently devoted to someone or something and to protect that person at all costs. Anyways--great blog post, something I hadn&#039;t really thought about before :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree. I can&#8217;t really think of a replacement word for &#8220;confines,&#8221; but there needs to be. Perhaps &#8220;consecration?&#8221; Some of the good definitions I found for consecration/consecrated include: </p>
<p>&#8220;to give entirely to a specific person, activity, or cause&#8221;<br />
&#8220;to dedicate oneself to another by a vow&#8221;<br />
&#8220;to make inviolable&#8221;<br />
&#8220;to devote to a purpose with or as if with deep solemnity or dedication&#8221; </p>
<p>I feel like these definitions better define what marriage should be. Not confinement and feeling &#8220;imprisoned,&#8221; but rather a dedicated willingness to be devoted to another person, and to make a vow to be devoted to them forever. With the word &#8220;confinement,&#8221; I feel like the emphasis is on making one feel as if they do not have a choice in the matter; as if it is their punishment or imprisonment without escape. &#8220;Consecration,&#8221; on the other hand, emphasizes the fact that one does indeed have a choice in the matter at hand; that one chooses to be diligently devoted to someone or something and to protect that person at all costs. Anyways&#8211;great blog post, something I hadn&#8217;t really thought about before <img src='http://www.aaronmccarter.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Marital Confinement by Katie Morrison</title>
		<link>http://www.aaronmccarter.com/family-stuff/marital-confinement#comment-312</link>
		<dc:creator>Katie Morrison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 16:34:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m with you! I always cringe when people talk about marriage in a way that suggests claustrophobia and/or punishment. Boundaries, however, have a totally different meaning. Psychologically, boundaries are good - people actually seek them out. Saying that, the boundaries of marriage have given me a space where I have grown as a person and in my faith more than ever before. It makes me feel the opposite of limitless in the ways that God wants me to grow. Now that is a gift!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m with you! I always cringe when people talk about marriage in a way that suggests claustrophobia and/or punishment. Boundaries, however, have a totally different meaning. Psychologically, boundaries are good &#8211; people actually seek them out. Saying that, the boundaries of marriage have given me a space where I have grown as a person and in my faith more than ever before. It makes me feel the opposite of limitless in the ways that God wants me to grow. Now that is a gift!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Confused Protestant&#8217;s Guide to Lent. Plus 10 ideas for how to observe it. by Dixie</title>
		<link>http://www.aaronmccarter.com/bible-stuff/the-confused-protestants-guide-to-lent-plus-10-ideas-for-how-to-observe-it#comment-309</link>
		<dc:creator>Dixie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 03:30:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, I&#039;ve got it now. I thought you meant all Catholics... I was trying for my life to think of anyone who wore weird hats for Lent, like as a bizarre sign of penance, like a dunce cap, and I came up empty. But ok, mitres and galeros. Check.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, I&#8217;ve got it now. I thought you meant all Catholics&#8230; I was trying for my life to think of anyone who wore weird hats for Lent, like as a bizarre sign of penance, like a dunce cap, and I came up empty. But ok, mitres and galeros. Check.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Confused Protestant&#8217;s Guide to Lent. Plus 10 ideas for how to observe it. by Aaron</title>
		<link>http://www.aaronmccarter.com/bible-stuff/the-confused-protestants-guide-to-lent-plus-10-ideas-for-how-to-observe-it#comment-308</link>
		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 02:55:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>funny hats: you know, Cardinals and Bishops and the like...full garb including large funny hats.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>funny hats: you know, Cardinals and Bishops and the like&#8230;full garb including large funny hats.</p>
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